ca or ut?

i am torn. do i want to move to california?
pros:
close to family
david can go to a better school
we'd make more money
we love california

cons:
we'd live in a tiny apartment
i'd have to quit my job
traffic
living close to family

stay in utah:
pros
we could probably buy a house
and get a dog
we wouldnt have to quit our jobs
less traffic
we're on our own..not close to immediate family

cons:
it's not california
not going to an ideal school
if we change our minds it would be harder to move, especially if we buy a house